I believe Marriage is where
"Celebration of Love" starts officially.
Everyone has a story, Here
we are with ours.
I said years ago, that i welcome
big bangs to life and here i'm with mine. A love marriage.
Big Bang
I always wanted to
meet a girl (perfect stranger), know her well, like her enough, make
her mine and write a story like "How i met your
mother" series for my kids. Finally, suffer with her
for life (Marry her) :)
I wanted my girl
to be bold, beauty with brains and "real crazy" for what
she likes. When we like something we should
be crazy about it. Should do crazy things to get it. I'm sure this craziness can
bring more happiness if practiced well. Well whats LOVE/LIFE without
this craziness, right. (Teddy keep it up ma, i love it a lot in u)
I've met girls over years, can't
name them here :) But, none of them were bold enough and I never
found them really crazy.
Beginning
I myself am not so
crazy but, I need some one to walk along with me in life. My search ended back in
October of 2010 when I met this girl who did her schooling
along with me back in 1990*'s. Well back then we never really
talked (So, we were still perfect strangers).
With her its not
the words, not the thoughts that matched well, Its our actions that
matched.
Slowly i started
to figure out how expressive she is, how cute, her smiles are
heartily and talks a lot. Her voice so sweet, crisp and tons and tons
of craziness (even embarrasses me at times) . Her unconditional love just caught my nerve.
When we met it was like, it was
like our relation is dating back from childhood., it felt like we were
known to each other for so long, so well.
Dream
Back then i used
to get dreams of "2012 apocalypse". A thunder storm
smashing every thing on its way and we were running holding
hands, as we pass by an ice cream shop. She stops and says "shall
we??". I had to think
what that dream could really mean to me and i believe the message
is "life is beautiful if we celebrate it!!".
We couldn't have made
through that storm in one piece. But, we could enjoy those moments
holding hands and looking into each others eyes.
If i loose her i will loose all
those moments all those smiles. So, i decided to be with her.
She can turn every moment
into an occasion and celebrate it with smiles. Thanks to
her, I've heart full of memories already.
"I LOVE YOU BABY"
Our Story
We've gone so strong and
understanding over years.
Our journey has a couple of
rough patches like,
Love is an offence !!!.
Marriage "with another
religion" is completely wrong !!!
We had to go through a lot
of hard times convincing or consoling and most of them never
worked out. Waited for so long for things to
change, minds to change, thinking to change.
For those who oppose: I
don't blame you, I know you are trying to keep your culture and
customs intact for one more generation. For good or bad they will
eventually change.
With the help of her family
and my brothers, beloved well wishers.
Here we are taking our bold
steps on 29th May 2013 to unite as one, before you all.
Future
I'm really excited about the day
and the time after.
Most of it seems usual as we
know each other for a while now. But then we will be in our own
place, make it our home, cook together, do the dishes together.
I know the BIG bang has not
started yet. But, we will be fine with that. Right dear?!
Teddy baby I promise I will
make life happening and never boring for both of us. I wish and I know u will stand by my side as I stand by yours in
our enchanting journey of love.
Pranu:
Passion, affection
and romance is what constitute love but there's more to it.The fact
of knowing that u are loved, trusted and cared for by
your Man is such an amazing thing that could ever happen in your life
time.There are so many joyful memories that u can't forget.Love is a
wonderful thing to experience in your life, because it carries sweet
and marvelous passion into the heart.....
From Classmates to
Soul-mates - It has been a wonderful journey and I never
expected that it would bring both of us to where we are today....
Probably the best thing that FB has ever done to me was to help
us both get in touch with each other after a decade....
First place where we met each
other - Sri Kakatiya High School Vijayawada, I don't remember the
date, but it was in the year 1999..
We studied our 9th std together,
in 10th std our divisions were different. We never spoke to each
other, or may be we did, I don't remember any such instances. He used
to be a calm n sober, but a mischievous boy in the class.
We finished our schooling, n never even thought of each other later
on...
2010 - The waves came in the
form of a Friend Request on FB, to which I was hesitant to
respond (remember, I mentioned that he had been one troublesome boy
in the school), so I took time.. After I went through his blog then
I thought to myself, may be, just may be he is not that kinda guy
anymore... Honestly the one thing that made me have a second opinion
about him was his interest in writing!! He had a kinda boldness
in expressing his thoughts and views, unconventional.. Some of them
call it weirdness and I called it uniqueness, probably
I was weird too.. So it took sometime for me to click 'Accept the
friend request'!!! One fine day I did that and it started just as a
casual talk, hi-hello, whats up n such stuff...
Later he got back to his work in
Suwon for 90 days.. During those days, while
chatting with him, I felt that he is an interesting guy, rather a
unique one.. He was not of that regular guys, who would give you
sugar coated words just to gain your attention and to impress you..
He was quite straight-forward and brutally honest at times,
just like me!! So I thought that we are on the same boat and
started getting to know more about each other... It went on so
fast that I made my entry on to his best buddies group on FB and
subsequently to his blog along with a complimentary quote for
him!!!
A tough guy with a soft
heart!!!! When you look at him from afar, all that you would
see is that he is not the kind of guy to speak to and the one from
whom our moms warn us to be away!!! :) Yes, most of them do
feel so, but only when you start getting to know him, would you
realize what he actually is!!! Thank God, that I decided to know this
guy!!!
Later on we used to spend more
time on chat.. We never knew what was so binding, we enjoyed the
magic of our relationship..
iddariki common interests chala
ne unnayi, kani differences kuda alane unnayi.. Believe me he is the first
guy, that I met, who loves reading on this planet!!!! He has
an aesthetic sense for art n literature. That made me take interest
in him. Later on got to know that he is a man of adventure which
I didn't appreciate at the beginning. But now I love everything that
he does!!!
The first three months of
knowing him were really the best, he showed me how love can bring
about a magic n work wonders in your life, especially when both of us
had a painful past... Now I get to know him better with each
passing day...
After that we led an 'online
life' for almost three months and found that we sync so well and that
there is a spark in this relation.. and it is that spark that kept us
going since then and that brought us till today!!!!
I am lucky and blessed to have
found this guy, who once was just a familiar stranger in my school
days, and made me realize that he is my soul-mate, now turning to be
my life-mate!!!
Love, tears, cheers, family,
friends, ego, attitude, understanding, hugs, complaints,fights,
sorry, thanks, surprises, gifts, silent concern,rides and many more
..and yes, it wasn't a cakewalk for us to come this far.. But our
love grew strong that we know we would never let go of each other,
come what may.... hope things will soon settle down... thanks for
being in my life and making my journey more exciting..
It has been a roller-coaster
ride, Naveen..
Thanks for being
there for me... Can't wait for
the day you and I will be
ONE!!!!
Love you loads ma....
